Bullying is very common all over the world. The two widely observed classifications of bullying can be, bullying in children and work place bullying. The term bullying can be verbal, physical or a demonstration of power, implying negative consequences. Any type of bullying, is unhealthy and also destroys the constitution and principles of the victim.
A victim of bullying is socially withdrawn and is a loner. If you glance at the playground during a recess, then the victims of bullying are usually spotted in the corners. They refuse to participate in anything that makes them come into contact with a large number of people.
If the victim is a high school student then he or she will engage in something that is silent such as reading, sketching or writing. The victims will act like chameleons and will try anything possible, so as not to get noticed. Often psychologists attribute this to a loss of confidence and loss of self-esteem.
There are negative effects as the victim becomes socially withdrawn, and tends to be in constant fear and stress. The stress is due to the fright of being hurt and insulted time and again in front of people. As victims are socially withdrawn their soft skills are not sharp, and the grades often begin to drop.
These victims adopt violence and aim at destroying bullies and their reputation. Often such victims are successful in adopting violence, but it makes the cycle even bitter, as the action always invites back a reaction. Aggression is good in some cases, however an aggressive victim is often beaten up again by the alpha bully.
Psychologists term the aggressive victims as 'rebels' and the silent ones as 'constructive'. Either way, long term impact of bullying tends to hamper the lives of many victims, if proper measures are not taken. At home, some common symptoms of bullying are observed.
Bed wetting, loss of self-control and a lack of communication with the parents is observed. A common symptom is that the child refuses to attend school. When he comes back, a common sign is silence.
The usual reaction of victim is acceptance of the situation, where the stress goes on building up, and the victim enters an unpleasant era of frustration. In such situations the victim will notice that, he or she is not only being unhappy but is suffering from deteriorating health and frustration.
Workplace harassment causes some problems in one's social life too. Constant bullying and harassment will result in loss of patience, in personal and professional life. To some extent, it will also affect the victim's self-esteem and overall confidence. There is a probability of loss of concentration, and overall productiveness is bound to be hampered.