Adolescence represents an inner emotional upheaval, a struggle between the eternal human wish to cling to the past and the equally powerful wish to get on with the future.
- Louise J. Kaplan.
- Louise J. Kaplan.
It is also a time of confusion, where at times, they are treated like adults while at the next moment, like little kids by their parents. As adolescence is a period where children try to establish their identity, this can actually add to their dilemma.
As adolescents begin to see everything in a new light, parents can observe certain behavioral changes in their child. Some of them are a part of normal adolescent behavior that diminishes when the teenager becomes an adult; however, sometimes, they can lead to more serious and dangerous problems which may affect their future lives.
Normal Adolescent Behavior
Usually, adolescence is begin when the child turns 13. This is just a parameter set by human. The physical and behavioral changes can begin from the age of 10 or 11, or even much before that. Many parents have said that their child have started behaving like a teenager at the age of 11 itself. Though this is just a parents concern and is quite normal.
Though most people associate teenagers with rebelliousness, this is not a common symptom of adolescence. Not all teenagers become rebellious, but may show certain signs of it when their parents refuse what they want.
Another change parents may observe in their children is an increased attachment to their peer groups. The child who would not leave the side of the parents, just few years back, becomes aloof and more closer to his/her friends and ready to do anything just to please their friends and to be part of the group.
These are some of the behavioral changes that are seen in adolescence and can be dealt with proper support and care from the side of the parents. However, there are some grave issues or serious behavioral problems in adolescence that parents may have to deal with.
Types of Adolescent Behavior Disorders
Along with learning problems, the teenager may also suffer from problems like hyperactivity, impulsive behavior, etc. Such behavior is sometimes seen as a part of adolescence behavior, and many times, are not taken seriously by the parents.
However, there are ways in which parents can identify a child with ADHD. If the teenager is consistently scoring poor scores in his exam, the reason for this can be ADHD. Also, adolescents who have this problem tend to be aggressive and may get involved in antisocial behavior like shoplifting, drinking, smoking, etc.
It is important that parents understand and recognize the signs of teenage depression as soon as possible because if it remains untreated, there are chances that they will aggravate and affect the child's life in later years.
Oppositional Defiance Disorder
Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD) is a behavioral problem characterized by hostility, defiance and opposition not only towards parents, but towards the world in general. The affected adolescents show aggressive behavior and also tend to blame others for the way they behave.
Some other traits of a teenager who has ODD are very less or no control on anger, argumentative, unreasonable, pessimistic, bad temper, etc. This kind of behavior starts at the age of 7 or 8. At first, the child will behave in this way only at home; however, soon it will extend to the school and also towards his peer group.
Adolescent Eating Behavior/Disorders
Eating disorders is another common problem seen in teenagers, especially in girls. Teenagers love to indulge in fast foods which can lead to problems like teen obesity as well as improper nutrition. Other than these, there are two very severe problems related to eating which include anorexia and bulimia.
Anorexia affects people who have very low self-esteem. It comes from the urge to be perfect in all areas of life. This can be quite serious as they may not eat anything causing serious damage to the body, may even lead to death. In Bulimia, a person indulges in binge eating, later feels guilty about it, throws away the food through self-induced vomiting.
If you observe any of these problems in your child, then take him/her to a psychiatrist or mental health practitioner as soon as possible. A good psychiatrist will try to find the root cause of the problem and help your child to overcome this problem. Also, it is crucial that you exhibit patience and give love and support to your child during these time.
Disclaimer: This is for informative purposes only, and should not be used as a replacement for expert medical advice.